Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Keegan's Eyes...




I know...three posts in one day. I'm going blog crazy. *snort*

My sweet boy had an ophthalmology appointment today. I am SO happy to report that, with his glasses, his vision is improving and his eyes are 'working' more equally. YAY! This means no eye patch and puts our minds at ease even more that Keegan's eye problems are "just" eye problems. =) Furthermore, unless we see any new problems, he doesn't need to be seen again for a year.

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers for our sweet Keegan.

Our Korean Student.

With the illness and loss of our sweet Hadley I completely forgot to update you all on our Korean exchange student. He and his family decided that they'd really like him to be in a home with other teens. I can totally understand that. It seems like it would be helpful, socially, in a smooth transition to our culture. Having said that, we were honest (yet, brief) with the facts on where Hadley was in her life. As a mother I would not send my child (at any age) into a home that was about to or had just lost a child. I would not choose that for my kids regardless of wether I knew the family or not...especially if I didn't know them. I totally respect and appreciate their decision.

Maybe next year we'll be able to take on that adventure. =)

It's all in the delivery...

My friend Mollie posted this video and I found it worthy of sharing.




Live your life with love and respect for others. Share that love with those around you. It's THAT important.

That is all.

Angela

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Pink Sky


This is a pink sky I caught with my iPhone while in Idaho. Most of our trip was bittersweet. We were there to celebrate Christmas. We are more thankful than ever that our savior was born but, we are still so early in the grieving process. There is no good time to lose your child but, less than 2 weeks before Christmas seemed to be especially hard. Anyway, the trip was full of ups and downs. One night I headed out to the front porch for a few moments alone and this beautiful pink sky took my breath away.



My biggest reason for sharing is: www.Pink Sky Project.com. My cousin Stevie had a brain tumor too. She died just over a year and a half ago. She was 19 and lived with her tumor for 5 years after diagnosis. She and Hadley's tumor journeys had so many parallels. Despite the big age difference, they were kindred spirits. Now they are both in heaven picking yellow tulips and caring for babies and cuddly little furry things.

After Stevie left her body behind Gina, her wonderful Mama, wrote and illustrated this book. It has been a source of comfort and hope for our entire family over the course of this past year.

The book begins:

Everyone is born and everyone dies.

It is a great mystery and a promise.

It is a story that is hard to remember and a story that has no endings, only beginnings.


I encourage you to order one for your family. In doing so you will also be helping put this book in the hands of families in situations similar to ours at no cost. All 'profit' from the book is used to give free books to those who need them.

Thank you for your love and support. Thank you for your prayers. Thank you for loving our girl.
Keep an eye out for pink skies and remember our pinkalicious Hadley.

Angela

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Our Favorite Girl...





Our sweet Hadley finally got the miracle we've been praying for on friday morning at about 3:30 am. It is not the miracle we had hoped and longed for...but it is her miracle. She is whole again. Our hearts are hurting more than we could have ever imagined...but, we are so thankful that she is finally free. Hadley was always so much bigger than her body, than this world...now, she has no limitations. We will miss her forever and ever...until the day we join her again.

"Things never go so well that one should have no fear, and never so ill that one should have no hope."
-- Turkish proverb

We love you sweet girl...SO much. I hope that you knew that. We are the luckiest family ever to have had you for our very own. You will always be our sunshine baby girl.

Please see Hadley's page for funeral service details. www.HadleyFox.com

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

A New Adventure



In mid January we will be welcoming a Korean foreign exchange student into our home. Today we completed the final step in the application process, the home visit, so it's finally official. We are excited at the opportunity to learn from and teach this eager student about our culture etc. He will be attending school at Columbia (with the boys). He's 15 and his life dream/goal is to go to MIT. We look forward to and are very thankful for the journey ahead. I'm excited to share all our adventures with him with you all. =) If any of you have experience or would like to suggest activities, meals, day/weekend trips etc we would love to hear from you.

Have a great week. =)

Sunday, November 30, 2008

My Love Bug...

***Please go down and pause the playlist!***


I was uploading photos and video to photobucket today and I found this video. Hadley was in Kindergarten. I had almost forgotten how sweet and 'little' she sounded/was then. This video made me all warm and fuzzy inside but very, very sad as well. I need to remember the good times to get through...but it is also hard to remember the happy times...it reminds me how bad she is doing now. =(




Hadley was on chemo when GG and Papa bought her the LoveBug and unfortunately she was lost in a tragic chemo puke incident. =(